"Beautiful is she who finds inspiration in her own existence. Blessed is she who can block unfavorable energy when her good energy is on fire. Amazing is she who can still truly love even when she's in discomfort. Favored is she who is loved even when she can't pinpoint by who. Successful is she who can spread compassion from the top of her mountain. Loved is she when she can be her true self." --Treka House
There is nothing sexier than a woman who believes in her own fire. People are attracted to the light of a confident woman, who moves about her journey with poise and grace. It doesn't mean she's presumptuous or inconsiderate of those around her, she's simply comfortable in her own sphere. You see, many women tend to wear the mask of self-assurance, though it is merely a veil of pretense. People feel that having confidence means throwing out the illusion that they are living a life free of issues; however, that's completely unrealistic. Every person stumbles upon their share of problems every now and then. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's life. It's important to remember that it is not what you endure in life, it's how you carry on afterwards that matters most. While you're going through any unfavorable season, channel the sweet parts of who you are to serve to world. People around you don't deserve to be mistreated because you're dealing with something ugly. As a woman, you have to face yourself in the mirror and fall in love with your own existence, with or without the confirmation of another person. I mean literally stand back and nod in pure acceptance, for you were not designed to be like any other women you see. Spin around giggling as you take your entire being in and absolutely love the skin you're in. It doesn't matter how much you weigh, how you wear your hair, if you wear make-up or natural or what your financial status is. Sometimes you just have to get caught up loving exactly who you are. When you do that, you're able to spread that organic love to others, who may need that same empowerment. Look back over your life and stick your chest out, you're a survivor girl. Times may get stuff, but my darling, you're still here to witness your own amazement. Refuse to allow the empty illusions of others to blind you about your awesomeness. It's fine if everyone else isn't able to appreciate your unique virtue, that should have nothing to do with how you view yourself. Before you get too caught up with what I'm saying, I need you to understand that I'm not suggesting that you become vain or unable to accept constructive criticism. I'm simply telling you to be able to identify negativity of any kind, while still being able to look at yourself and love who you see before you. If someone hurts you or makes an attempt to destroy your soul, step back in front of that mirror to give yourself a power boost. Look yourself square in the eye and be sure about your true self. Not the person that others said you were, but the person you said you are. Believing in what you tell yourself means everything for who you'll actually be. Be the type of woman who is poised enough to extend her hand to help another soul, for she understands that what's for her is for her and nothing can be stolen from her. She finds security in her most insecure moments, as her heart is geniune and that in itself is comforting to her. Believe that you are this type of woman, she's absolutely beautiful!